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    11/05/2009

    为了今天

    为了寻找心灵的平静,我翻开卡耐基的一本书,却看到了一下一段旨在让你“生活上快乐”的话。说的非常好!

    1. 为了今天,我要十分快乐。如果林肯说的“大部分人只要下定决心,就能获得快乐”这句话是对的,那么快乐就应该是来自于内心,而不是存在于外在。

    2. 为了今天,我要让自己适应一切,而不去试着调整一切来适应自己的欲望。我要以这种态度接受我的家庭,我的事业和我的运气。

    3. 为了今天,我要爱护自己的身体。我要多加运动,善于照顾,善于珍惜它,而不损伤它,不忽视它,使它成为我争取成功的好基础。

    4. 为了今天,我要丰富自己的思想,要学习一些有用的东西。我不要做一个胡思乱想的人,要看一些需要思考,更需要集中精力才能看得书。

    5. 为了今天,我要用三件事来锻炼我的灵魂,我要为别人做一件好事,而不让人知道,我还要做两件自己并不想做的事,如同威廉詹姆斯所说的,只是为了锻炼。

    6. 为了今天,我要做个讨人喜欢的人,外表修饰,衣着得体,说话低声,行动优雅,丝毫不在乎别人的毁誉,对任何事都不挑毛病,也不干涉或教训别人。

    7. 为了今天,我要试着认真思考如何度过每一天,而不是试图将一生的问题一次解决,因为,一个人可以连续工作12个小时,却不可能一辈子这样做下去。

    8. 为了今天,我要制定一个计划,我要写下每个小时应该做的事,也许我不会完全照着做,但依然要定下这个计划,这样至少可以免除两种缺点--过分仓促和犹豫不决。

    9. 为了今天,我要为自己留下安静的半小时,放松一下。在这半个小时里,我要想到神,是自己的生命更充满希望。

    10. 为了今天,我要心中毫无畏惧。尤其是不要害怕快乐,我要去欣赏一切美好的东西,勇敢地去爱,去相信我爱的人会爱我。

    20/09/2008

    Effective Communication

    A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet. He held up a sign which said: "I am blind, please help.." There were only a few coins in the hat.
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    A man was walking by. He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words. He put the sign back so that everyone who walked by would see the new words.
    Soon the hat began to fill up. A lot more people were giving money to the blind boy. That afternoon the man who had changed the sign came to see how things were. The boy recognized his footsteps and asked, "Were you the one who changed my sign this morning? What did you write?"

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    The man said, "I only wrote the truth. I said what you said but in a different way."
    What he had written was: "Today is a beautiful day and I cannot see it."
    Do you think the first sign and the second sign were saying the same thing?
    Of course both signs told people the boy was blind. But the first sign simply said the boy was blind. The second sign told people they were so lucky that they were not blind. Should we be surprised that the second sign was more effective?
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    Moral of the Story: Be thankful for what you have. Be creative. Be innovative. Think differently and positively.

    Invite others towards good with wisdom. Live life with no excuse and love with no regrets. When life gives you a 100 reasons to cry, show life that you have 1000 reasons to smile. Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear. Keep the faith and drop the fear.
    Great men say, "Life has to be an incessant process of repair and reconstruction, of discarding evil and developing goodness! In the journey of life, if you want to travel without fear, you must have the ticket of a good conscience."
    The most beautiful thing is to see a person smiling!

    And even more beautiful is, knowing that you are the reason behind it!!!

    Have a Blessed Day =)